Relational
Life
Therapy
Coach

This is not traditional couples’ work. RLT provides deep characterological change. By working through 3 phases, we first assess the health of the relationship, uncover the dysfunctional relational stances/patterns/cycles, and bring them into conscious awareness. Next, we look at how and why these patterns formed in the first place. After addressing the roots of these issues, new skills are learned and practiced. This method is a paradigm shift in relationality, that helps both sides get more of what they want.

If your first session is satisfactory, I recommend committing to a minimum of 6 sessions. I work in 90-minute sessions that meet every other week.

MY Couples COACHING METHOD

Intention

our compass and guide
Assessment

observe boundary and power dynamics
Relational Stance

bring to conscious awareness dysfunctional patterns and cycles
Witnessing

compassionate presence and reflective listening to feel seen heard and understood
SUPPORT

fellow traveler joining through the truth to unearth and befriend unmet parts
Connection

deepen connection to each other with embodied integration and learned skills

“We work with the parts of you that won’t use relational skills.”

— Terry Real

FAQs

I work in 90 minute sessions 2x/month for a minimum of 3 months. It is a monthly subscription model of $450/ month. This equates to a $1350 total for the 3 month minimum. At the completion of 3 months we will reevaluate if continued support is desired 1-2x/month until you are no longer requiring support. A 30-day notice is required when ending the subscription.
Scholarships or discounts may be available for those facing genuine financial challenges. Please inquire as these are limited.
I recommend supplemental participation in the free Sacred Connection Café [available weekly] for additional support.

I do not take insurance. All sessions are prepaid directly to me through PayPal, Zelle, or Venmo.
I have experience working with both married and unmarried couples who identify as
-heterosexual
-homosexual
- neurodivergent
-separated
-polyamorous or ethical non-monogamous
-parents

of various religious and non-religious backgrounds.

Contraindications include undiagnosed or untreated mental health disorders, active abuse, or significant untreated trauma such as CPTSD
At this time I only work online through Zoom.
24 hour notice is requested. The full fee will be billed for no-shows or cancellations less than 24 hours. To avoid a cancellation fee please reschedule instead.
I partner with you as we journey together. I do not remain neutral, but compassionately call out dysfunctional patterns on both sides. You will get out of it what you put into it. I serve as the guide, but it is you who must do the work. I will support you in meeting your goals and desired outcomes. This is for those committed to doing deep work to attain the relationship you desire.

We will work in phases
Phase 1 is assessment and explicitly naming the dysfunctional dynamics.
In phase 2 we will look at when these patterns emerged and why, and update the body's nervous system to present time and orient to resource.
Phase 3 is learning new skills that were previously unknown or unable to be used based on the blocks getting in the way.